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think that the reasons why people have such negative views on conflict is
because of the way that it is described in movies and places in which they do
not see it. Movies and television portray conflict as a huge over-thrown event
and not how it actually is. People in turn view conflict as this super negative
thing that has to be very bad. I believe that they more people know as well as
experience conflict the better off they will be and the less they will fear it.
As with anything in life, the more that we know about it the less fear we have.
Once people get to truly experience conflict for themselves they will learn how
to deal with it as well as ways in which they can avoid it. The most important
thing in it all is avoiding conflict, so the more they know, the better off we
will be when things do arise.
I happen to agree with you. Society does not educate us well on conflict. There are so many reality shows that show conflict, and how its handled. I have to admit I watch the Real Housewives, and there is nothing more enthralling yet horrible then watching grown women in conflict. Fact of the matter is, a majority of people do not know how to accurately handle conflict. We mirror what we see. Life doesn't have to filled with fearing conflict or being conflict oriented. I think people do need to learn more about conflict and have a better understanding of it.
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